Hear about Matt's own personal journey that led him to become a therapist and healer.

Gay culture celebrates youth, lean bodies, six-pack abs, handsome facial features, and oozing sex appeal. So what happens when men age out of that developmental stage? Many guys struggle with grief over the loss of their personal, professional, and sexual identities. They tend to focus on scarcity instead of recognizing, acknowledging, and celebrating the abundance that punctuates their lives. The loss many older queer men experience is palpable: youth, vitality, status, rel

Michael and David are gay men who met on one of those cringy, yet stimulating hookup apps. They flirted through the app’s messaging system before deciding to meet for lunch. Lunch? I know. How weird is that? What happened to down and dirty meaningless sex? Yes, I’m being facetious. Actually, how thoughtful, refreshing, and lovely to meet for lunch. Michael is a “mature” man. Okay… an older man (he’s sensitive about his age). He is intelligent, accomplished, well-educated, att